Elevator Etiquette for the Modern Apartment Dweller
Today's blog is a quick review about Elevator Etiquette. We all know indulging in any type of bodily function is definitely taboo. But what about the things you are supposed to do? These tips will help you get it right. Placement - or where do I stand? 1 person - wherever you want. Until someone else gets on. 2 people, separate, you don't want to get in their personal bubble. 3-4 people, each to a corner. 4 + stand where you can fit and still leave some space. Face the door and keep packages and bags in front of your body. In a crowded elevator, the person nearest the door becomes the Button Pusher. If you are the Button Pusher, be proactive and ask those entering the elevator which floor they wish to exit on. Now about Holding Doors If you are alone in the elevator, you should always hold the door. If there are a few other people in the elevator, but you are the designated "button pusher," use your discretion. (Did the person see your face? Do they seem desperate? Is it your boss?) If the elevator is very full, let the doors close, but make a lame, shrugging "Sorry!" face. Conversation If you must talk, a simple nod and general greeting is sufficient. If you simply must say something, keep it light. If you are with someone and conversing before you enter an elevator, put your conversation on hold until you exit. Never hold a personal or sensitive conversation on the elevator, in person or on the phone. Do not continue talking on your phone. Tell the person you will call them back. (If the elevator isn't terribly crowded texting is fine.) Entrance and Exit Strategies When you are waiting for the elevator, stay far enough back that those exiting the elevator have room to get out. Before you board the elevator, know whether it is going up or down (and know which direction you are headed). If the car is already crowded, watch to see if the passengers either verbally invite you to come aboard or squeeze together to provide room for you to enter. If you are in the back of a crowded elevator, let the other riders know when your floor is coming up. It is sufficient to say something like, "My floor is next." This will cue the other riders to move so you have room to make your way to the front of the elevator. On the question of Ladies First, it remains a debate. Letting a lady decide if she wants to get in the same car as a potential creepy guy by going in last has its merits; yet, on the other hand traditionally, as a courtesy, a gentleman lets the lady enter the elevator first, and takes on the chore of pushing the buttons. However, that could have its perils too, as this Shel Silverstien poem illustrates: Pamela Purse The bottom line, whoever gets on or off first, is to be courteous to everyone. Leave a comment and tell us about an elevator experience that has stuck with you.
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